For years, Marcus Alexander Velazquez looked like a faithful Christian from the outside.
He was involved in multiple ministries. He evangelized. He served, gave, and showed up consistently. By every measure the Church uses to define spiritual maturity, he was doing well.
But inside, there was a quiet question he could not answer: Is this all there is?
The turning point did not come from a sermon or a conference. It came during a moment alone with God in silence, when God revealed something to Marcus that he had never seen in years of ministry and Bible study.
God has a love language.
That single revelation changed everything. Marcus realized he had spent years being busy for God, serving God, and studying God — without ever simply being with God. He had replaced loving God with working for God.
The moment God made it clear that his only responsibility was to sit at His feet in silence, Marcus was set free. Free from the scoreboard. Free from the performance. Free from the weight of never doing enough.
Now his relationship with God is exactly that — a relationship. They talk. He listens. He rests in who God is and His finished work at the cross.
How To Love God is what God revealed to Marcus in that place. It is not a method or a theology. It is an invitation to the one thing Jesus said mattered most.